Flamme · B2C · couples app
Make the daily question for couples the main thing on the home screen
Day-30 retention went from 4.2% to ~30%, then 50%, with streak reminders
What they did
What happened
- Effort
- ~8 months of iteration
This shipped together with other changes, so the result can't be credited to this alone.
In their words
An Nayal - Full App Growth Guide 2026 - How to Make Viral Content to Get Users & Make Your App Retentive
An NayalBut we realized that it wasn't working. Like, even though we could get media presence, even though the retention went up to from 0.8 to 4.2, it was still dismal, and we realized we had to do something else. What we did is, this product had AI as its main feature, but along with that, we also launched something called the daily question, where we would give couples a daily prompt they could answer together.
An NayalNow, I know it's really common right now, and almost every other app does it, but back in that time, we were one of the few, like I think Paired was the only one apart from us which was doing it. We realized that people were coming back not for the AI coach, but for that daily question feature. They were coming for a daily way to connect with their partner, and we took that nugget, we extracted it from the product, and we made it the mainstay in the product.
An NayalWe put it right on the home page in big. We were like, "Hey, daily discovery question, this is the main thing we want you to come back for." Now, what I did regarding retention is I studied the work of a Stanford professor called BJ Fogg. He works a lot in habit formation, and we realized that every retention event needed to be tied with a trigger. It needed to have something which was a daily habit to call people back on a regular basis, and it needed to have a carrot-and-the-stick approach.
An NayalWhat was the carrot-and-the-stick approach in this case? In the morning, if you would answer or not answer your daily question when it was live, you would get a carrot notification reminding you, "Hey, come back, answer your question, take care of it." And as the day passed, if you did not answer your daily question, we would send a stick notification reminding you that, "Hey, it's time for you to answer the daily question. You're You're going to …
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Tags: ios, daily-habit, core-loop, usage-data, home-screen